By: Faisal Ansar
This world is supposed to be and called men’s world as it is general perception that men are dominating in this world as prima facie, it looks like so but the case is different what it is supposed to be and if it is researched and ascertained whether it is really a men’s world or women’s world then it would come to know that it is the women who are reigning in this world indirectly. Whether it is a house or an office it is seen that women are reining as men are seemed to just follow their directions and their actions pretend so. Women are found complaining that their due rights are not fulfilled by men in so-called men’s world. In fact, it is women who are enemy to each other not men owing to which their rights are not fulfilled although men always try their level best to fulfill rights of all the women attached to them but owing to jealousy factor among them, they remain fail to materialize and men are also seen fighting with each other owing to same reason.
It is observed that if head of the department/organization or an office is a man, he is seemed to be driven by any of the woman of the office while if it is house, husband is seemed to be manipulated by her wife and approximately, it is the story of every house with some impunity. It is also seen that newlywed son who used to follow the instructions of his parents before marriage is driven by her wife and seemed to follow her instructions which is not accepted by his mother primarily owing to which distort is occurred in the house. Thus, atmosphere of the house becomes unpleasant and unwantedly men does what women desires.
Similarly, such situation is experienced in offices as well that women of the offices drives men especially head of the department. Is it really a men’s world where men are seemed to follow women’s directions only ? and are dictated and manipulated by them. Who does not fulfill women’s rights whether it is men or it is women as because of a woman, a woman’s rights are not fulfilled like in houses, if a son fulfils rights of his wife his mother becomes an obstacle who considers that his son is not fulfilling her due rights. In the same way, in office environment men tries to treat all women identically but women do not like it and every woman wants to be treated in a special way. In such situation, it becomes turbulent for men to treat all the women akin.
Men should behave like a man and should give instructions to be followed by women instead of obeying their instructions all the time being justified and unjustified. Their consent should be taken in all the matters of houses or offices and their due rights must have to be fulfilled but following women blindly cause distorts everywhere whether it is office or a house. Make it women’s world where all her due rights to be fulfilled but it should be reined by men as only then women’s rights could be fulfilled and stop being women’s men in so-called men’s world as men are men and women are women who are equal in perspective of their prescribed due rights but physically and mentally men are stronger than women.
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